Chloe Caldwell is a master of the personal essay, and in her latest collection, I’ll Tell You in Person, she covers a lot of ground: yoga, drugs, obsessive relationships, intense friendships, and T.J. Maxx. The New York–based writer explains what being a grown-up really means, and why “queer” might actually just mean “normal.”
Why do personal essays get such a bad rap?
There’s a surplus of them on the Internet these days, so we often confuse a personal essay with what’s just a stream-of-consciousness vomit blog post. When I’ve online dated recently, my date will say, “What do you teach?” because I say I’m a teacher, not a writer. And I’ll say personal essays. And they’ll say, “Is that, like, blogging?” I get so offended. But I think the more…