Natasha Hewett, 35, lives in Brighton, with her husband Gavin, an art director, her son Henry, 17, and their children Quincy, three, and Reggie, four months.
She says, “My twins – Buddy and Quincy – were very wanted. We’d endured six miscarriages and spent £20,000 on IVF before we fell pregnant with them.
“When we found out I was having twins I was overwhelmed, but so happy, and we bought two of everything, from Moses baskets to a double buggy.
“But at 31 weeks, the worst happened. Buddy, who I knew was on the left side, stopped kicking inside me – any mother of twins will know that somehow, you can just tell when there are two babies wriggling around. But I knew Buddy wasn’t moving. “I remember drinking orange…
