Table of contents for February - March 2017 in You and Your Wedding

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1 Display your canapés If, unlike Ross, you feel that hors d’oeuvres suit your W-day theme, add interest to your drinks reception by having them displayed to match – think wooden boards for a rustic do, ornate mirrors for a glam celebration, bird cages for a vintage affair and slate trays for an industrial look. 2 Spice up the way you serve it If you’re having a roast for your wedding breakfast, choose one person as carver, without telling them in advance. Give them an apron (pretty, cheeky or personalised – you decide) to increase the entertainment value. Or, get guests socialising over Mediterranean-style sharing platters, such as boards of antipasto. 3 Keep it sweet If you’ve chosen to have a sit-down meal, remember your guests don’t have to be…

THE COUPLE Adam & Fergus Adam Howard, 45, and Fergus Robertson, 51, held their ceremony and reception at East Riddlesden Hall, West Yorkshire When it came to designing their dream celebration, Adam and Fergus knew exactly the tone to set. “We wanted it to be more of a party with a purpose, rather than having formality dominate the day,” explains Fergus. “There was no theme. Every aspect UHflHFWHG RXU LQWHQWLRQ WR FUHDWH DQ environment in which people could relax, laugh, catch up, and allow their friendship and love to contribute to our day.” With that in mind, the couple chose to seat their guests in a semi-circle for the ceremony, so they didn’t have their backs to anyone. There was no top table: instead, Adam and Fergus circulated among their…

SO HOT! SOCIAL NETWORK With only 2% of couples opting for an unplugged wedding, we’re saying stash your phone charger in your clutch bag!* ANIMAL INTERIORS Use your gift list to further your – animal obsession include this paw-some plate from Art Rookie, priced from £15. GETTING FRUITY We can’t get enough of choux aux fruits – beautiful choux pastry buns filled with fruit mousse, ideal for dessert tables – and your guests won’t be able to either! £12.99 for 24, Brioche Pasquier. SO NOT! SLEEPLESS NIGHTS Let tossing and turning be a thing of the past: put Cloth & Clay’s fabulous bedding sets on your gift list for a luxurious night’s sleep. Prices from £80, available from John Lewis. UNINSPIRED PROPOSALS A surprising 23% of brides were disappointed with…

Fleetwood Mac Everywhere “This never fails to produce the warmest of group hugs.” Paul Simon You Can Call Me Al “Sometimes, it’s only right to end the night with a conga.” Hot 8 Brass Band Sexual Healing “An excellent remix of the Marvin Gaye classic with plenty of horns and singalong moments.” R. Kelly Ignition (Remix) “After the party, it’s the hotel lobby – need we say any more?”…

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MOSTLY As: Financial ostrich OK, so you’re a head-in-the-sand type of spender. This isn’t an ideal approach when planning a wedding, with all the different elements to take into account, not to mention the fact that you’ll be exposing yourself to serious stress. Think of this as an opportunity to develop a whole new, positive attitude to money. Trust us, you’ll feel a whole lot better when you know exactly where you stand, money-wise – few things are worse than that stomach-churning feeling you get when you’re not in control. Planning should be fun. Start by setting a realistic budget. Sit down as a couple and look at what you have to spend. That may involve totting up any existing savings or parental contributions etc, or you may need to…

Choosing the right gift list for you is a big deal. After all, the things you put on it will become a treasured part of your home and form so many lovely memories for years to come. So, it makes sense to let the experts help you to make it perfect. Established more than 25 years ago, The Wedding Shop is the leading independent gift list provider, offering a complete award-winning service that includes the largest selection of branded gifts, cash funds and honeymoon contributions. The Wedding Shop will help you to build D OLVW WKDW LV HQWLUHOy SHUVRQDO DQG flH[LEOH to you, with no hidden fees or charges – even the (UK) delivery is complimentary. There are four beautiful showrooms in London (both in Chelsea and at Selfridges) Dublin…

STYLING TIP A flower headpiece adds a romantic twist to this modern look. STYLING TIP A big bow and buttons are a glamorous addition to a fishtail gown.…

STYLING TIP Super sparkly outfit? Don't go overboard with the accessories STYLING TIP A statement necklace is a chic addition to a V-neck dress…

Chia seeds, cranberries, and broccoli aren’t just good for your morning smoothies. Superfood skincare is big news in the beauty industry at the moment. There’s a host of new serums, moisturisers and masks KDUYHVWLQJ WKH EHQHfiWV of seeds, berries and veg to detox and smooth skin, enhance radiance and get rid of imperfections in time for W-day. Give your skin a boost with these great buys, which will go down much better than a green juice (we promise!).…

Meet the trainer Pilates instructor and fit-kit designer Sally Dixon knows a thing or two about shaping up and looking hot while doing it. She’s the founder and creative director of activewear brand Every Second Counts and trains clients in Mat, Reformer and Apparatus Pilates via Power-Up Pilates (poweruppilates.com). SKIPPING Kick-start your workout with a short, sharp burst of cardio. Got no rope? Fake it. Imagine that rope is turning in your hands – and no dragging your feet, really jump! Stay active for 30 seconds, then take a 10-second break and move on to the next exercise. CURTSY LUNGES Start with feet shoulder distance apart (weights optional). Step right leg behind and past left leg. Touch right knee to floor. Keep weights by side of your body, torso upright…

LUCKNAM PARK, Wiltshire WHERE Perfectly placed between charming towns of Bath and Chippenham, Lucknam Park is everything you’d look for in a country house hotel. There are 500 acres of grounds, smart stables, the most romantic tree-lined drive we’ve ever seen, a Michelin-starred restaurant, a cookery school, tennis courts, a state-of-the-art spa… you get the idea. WHY Once you step across the threshold of this Palladian pile, you’re in another world – the sort where you’re invited to sip champagne in the Drawing Room before dinner and where every cup of tea comes in silverware with a side of homemade shortbread. The rooms are dreamy, too, each with their own character and interiors you’ll want to recreate at home. For honeymooners, though, it has to be The Tower Suite. BOOK…

The savvy way to avoid overspending is to set a budget as early as possible – and stick to it. The first step Naturally, your first financial step will be to work out the total amount you’ve got to play with, including any contributions from parents. After that, the simplest method is to allocate a percentage of this total to each area of the wedding. The average breakdown of some of the big-ticket items is as follows* : Food & drink: 16% Venue hire: 15% Bride’s outfit: 6% Photography: 4% Entertainment/music: 3% Remember, this is just a guideline, not a commandment. Our advice is for couples to work out what’s important to them, then dial different wedding areas up or down accordingly. For example, if music is a huge part…

• Plus ones Partners are a yes for married couples or guests in long-term relationships. As for the rest, the key is kindness. If a guest won’t know many people or is travelling a long way, it’s nice to let them bring someone. Worried about an aisle-full of strangers? Throw a pre-W-day dinner so you can get to know them. • Family & colleagues It’s all about consistency. If you invite some cousins and not others, or choose your favourite desk-mate over your pal in accounts, you risk hurt feelings. • Children For some, weddings just aren’t right without tiny tots; for others, mini guests are a no-no. What’s more, some venues aren’t small-person-friendly. Whatever you decide, make it clear on the invites. It’s OK to make an exception for…

The ceremony – the most crucial part of the day – is surprisingly easy to overlook in the whirlwind of flowers, outfits and cake. Make it memorable by taking time to think about how you want to get wed. CIVIL This is a non-religious legal ceremony that takes place in a register office or local authority-approved venue, which can be anything from a barn or hotel to a zoo or aquarium. An outdoor “I›do” is possible in England and Wales, as long as you exchange vows under a permanent structure, such as a pergola. In addition to the required legal wording, you can usually add your own personalised vows and readings, provided they have no religious connection. Contact the closest register office to your venue to make sure there’s a…

It’s not compulsory to have a bridal party, but getting your nearest and dearest involved can add to the fun factor. Here are the key roles to consider. MAID OF HONOUR Your go-to gal for practical and emotional support. She’ll organise the hen party, help you shop for the dress and co-ordinate the other bridesmaids, and you may ask her to keep an eye on your outfit on the day. Is your top pick for this important role male? No problem – just call him your man of honour. How to choose This should be someone reliable, calm in a crisis and a good listener. BRIDESMAIDS These are the ladies you love spending time with, whether they’re family or friends. In theory, there’s no limit to the number of maids…

• BESPOKE Created just for you. • CUSTOMISED An existing design that you can personalise – check out the amazing examples at our sister brand, hitched.co.uk/ stationery. • PRINTABLE Often free templates: download, add names and details, then print. • ENGRAVING Printing that gives raised lettering – classic, but expensive. Thermography gives a similar effect without the price tag. • LASER CUT A precision technique used to cut out intricate shapes and words. • LETTERPRESS Letters or patterns are stamped into the card. • FOIL STAMPING Creating a shiny or matte metallic finish; works for a range of colours.…

GETTING READY Your dress on the hanger Your shoes Your jewellery Engagement ring and wedding bands Close-up dress details You having your make-up applied Your hair You and your mum Dad’s first sight of you You and your dad You with both parents Bridesmaid dresses Your bouquet You with your MoH You with your flower girls You getting into the car THE CEREMONY Exterior Interior Pew ends Flower arrangements Guests arriving Groom waiting at the aisle You and your dad arriving You and your dad walking down the aisle The moment your groom first sees you Exchanging vows Wide-angle view Exchanging rings The kiss You and your groom leaving Confetti throwing PRE-RECEPTION You and your groom You and your bridesmaids Groom and the best man Groom, best man and ushers…

PORTRAITS Glam squad Nadia Matoorian-Farrow and Zara Vernazza have years of experience working with bridal designers and getting brides ready for their big day. They love breathing new life into classic W-day looks, and made our models shine for Maid in Heaven (p170). LIZZIE POOK Freelance travel and features journalist Lizzie is currently planning an al fresco July wedding, surrounded by peacocks and ponds at Larmer Tree in Wiltshire. She penned our Costa Rica honeymoon feature (p216) – the hottest new destination for newlyweds. KIM BALASUBRAMANIAM Wedding planner and designer Kim has been bringing her distinctive creative flair and expert planning skills to weddings across the country since 2006. She designed the atmospheric Picture Perfect shoot (p88). NATALIA GOLUBEVA Natalia is managing director of Maison de Fleurs. She created an…

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When you’re choosing your wedding gift list you want to go with a brand you know you can trust and rely upon, but that also offers you choice. That’s what makes John Lewis’ gift list so perfect. TAKE YOUR PICK These days, gift lists aren’t just about traditional homeware such as china and cutlery, they’re also a chance to choose SLHFHV WKDW UHflHFW yRXU LQWHUHVWV DQG KDYH a bit of fun. John Lewis has a wide and GLYHUVH UDQJH RI QHZ DQG H[FOXVLYH SURGXFWV RQ RIIHU ZLWK LWV IUHH VHUYLFH ² yRX KDYH WKH whole department store to choose from! To create your list, you can simply use a scanner in a John Lewis shop or select gifts online from the comfort of your home. There are gifts that will…

THE CITY-CHIC MAIDS Georgie’s Team Wedding wore elegant Twobirds gowns. “I wanted a dress to suit all four of them, even though they’re different heights,” she says. “These are multi-wrap dresses, so each of my bridesmaids could choose the look they preferred.” THE SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP When it came to the food, the couple decided to fuse British and US favourites. The feast started with Deep South-inspired canapés, including Cajun shrimp DQG PLQL FKLFNHQ ZLWK ZDIflHV› IROORZHG by traditional British roast beef. THE REFINED RIDE Georgie and Scott travelled from ceremony venue The Grosvenor Chapel to Two Temple Place in a 1952 Bentley. “Our guests preceded us in a vintage Routemaster, which made it feel like our own personal parade through London,” says Georgie. THE STUNNING SHOTS Husband and wife team…

VENUE insider The latest openings and hottest happenings Natural History Museum, London Culture vultures, this one’s for you! The Natural History Museum is offering couples the exclusive opportunity to host their wedding reception in the majestic North Hall until August – and you get to take in the exhibits. nhm.ac.uk Cranborne Garden Centre, Dorset Love the great outdoors? You can marry in the beautiful new Garden Room, which is set in the picturesque walled garden and features a glass wall for striking views. youandyourwedding.co.uk/venues Canalside, Birmingham Looking for the perfect celebration space in the West Midlands? Canalside is located within Birmingham’s city-centre landmark, The Cube. It’s the perfect blank canvas for your big day – and we mean big, with room for up to 400 guests. canalsidebirmingham.co.uk…

Here’s the thing about planning a wedding: unless you want a just-the-two-of-us elopement, it involves other people. Your parents, his parents, your friends, your Great-Uncle George… all of your decisions could potentially affect them in some way, whether that’s how you structure the guest list or what you spend on catering. And you may be surprised how many otherwise reasonable people develop strong opinions about weddings the PLQXWH yRX KDYH D ULQJ RQ yRXU fiQJHU› 6R› LQ EHWZHHQ VLSSLQJ FKDPSDJQH DW GUHVV fiWWLQJV DQG SRULQJ RYHU KRQHyPRRQ LGHDV› it’s likely you’ll have some conversations during the planning SURFHVV WKDW ZLOO WHVW yRXU SDWLHQFH ² DQG FRQfiGHQFH› 7KH secret is to tackle them as and when (or if!) they present themselves, and use our advice to keep everyone on side. THE…

Where to start With all the options out there, how do you set your gift list style? The simple answer is, you don’t actually have to. “These days, couples don’t need to choose EHWZHHQ VSHFLfiF WySHV RI JLIW OLVW› VR WKHUH·V QR FOMO,” says Ali Beaven, co-founder of contemporary-cool gift list company Prezola, where you can ask for beautiful products and cash contributions (whether for a honeymoon, saving up for a big home item or charity donations) all on the same list. “First and foremost, make sure your chosen gift list company can offer you what you want, whether it’s a certain selection of gifts, pricing and whether there are any extra costs when creating a honeymoon fund.” Also check that you can make product substitutions after the list has…

“Big dresses are big news! A full romantic skirt means modern brides have never looked so beautiful” Peta Hunt, editor-at-large THE DRESSES We chose big, bold and slightly quirky dresses to bring the traditional bridal look up to date THE THEME 21st-century princess at home in the country THE ACCESSORIES It was all about high drama for this shoot, with lots of flamboyant headpieces and bling SPECIAL THANKS The team shot on location at Hedsor House, Buckinghamshire. Set in the heart of the countryside, this Georgian mansion has been the backdrop to films, TV shows and weddings. With beautiful high ceilings, more than 100 acres of parkland and a spectacular Grand Ballroom for up to 150 guests, the house is an extraordinary setting for a memorable big day. hedsor.com…

“This shoot was all about creating a bride that was cool and elegant – no meringues allowed!” Peta Hunt, editor-at-large THE DRESSES We picked clean and contemporary dresses to complement the city setting THE THEME A modern wedding with a sassy twist THE ACCESSORIES It was all about simple sparkle – think bling with bags of style SPECIAL THANKS The team shot on location at Corinthia Hotel London. Located a short walk from Embankment and Trafalgar Square, this five-star hotel features stunning views of the city and a luxury spa for all of your pampering needs. The ornate Victorian building has chic interiors and a ballroom that seats up to 250 guests – an elegant choice for a truly romantic reception, corinthia.com/en/hotels/london…

Teamed with statement accessories, navy and cream create a sophisticated look. For a stylish wardrobe addition, every mum should invest in a smart coat or jacket. They’re perfect for warding off the chilly weather, and provide D flDWWHULQJ VLOKRXHWWH WKDW works day and night. CATWALK INSPIRATION WEAR WITH… TOP TIP Don’t go overboard with accessories – a statement hat and earrings are all you need.…

BOHO BRIDE Designer Savannah Miller launches her exclusive bridal collection at Debenhams in mid-January. She has created four styles – all with touches of embroidery and typical of her flowing, boho style. These dresses are easy to wear and easy on the pocket with prices starting at £320. WHISTLES WHILE YOU WED Launching in February is the ubercool Whistles Wedding range. Designed for the modern bride, the cool collection comprises seven limited-edition pieces that are available online and at its St Christopher’s Place store, where you can also get a private bridal appointment. Prices from £499.…

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Barely a day goes by without a new liquid lipstick dropping on to our desks. That’s why we decided it was time to suss out whether they stand up to the wedding day trials of sipping champagne, snacking on canapés and, of course, kissing. Combining the colour pay-off of a lipstick with the easy application of a gloss, these have incredible staying power. And, unlike with a gloss, you can achieve an oh-so-cool matte look, as seen on the likes of Kylie Jenner, Jessica Alba and Emma Stone. Best for BRIDES Tested by Kat Jennings, marketing and events assistant Kat Von D Everlasting Liquid Lipstick in Beloved, £16 The promise: Highly pigmented vegan lipstick, available in 26 shades with 24-hour wear – perfect for busy brides. The verdict: This glided…

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Let’s take a minute to think about the incredible thing you’ve done. Out of the 7.4 billion people on this planet, you’ve found the person who makes you feel amazing; the person you turn to when things don’t go your way; the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Congratulations! Something so wonderful deserves a special celebration. That’s why we created this practical planning guide, to help you enjoy a journey from engaged to newlyweds that’s as stress-free as possible. We’ve covered the big three – venue, guest list and budget – as well as key details such as choosing your dress, finding a photographer and setting your stationery style. We explain the different types of ceremony, and look at who you want in your wedding…

• The venue Make sure you know exactly what the quoted price includes, down to the tiniest detail. Typical “extras” that can unexpectedly bump up your bill include security, cleaning and cloakroom staff. • The suppliers Always check whether their fees include travel expenses and whether you’re expected to feed them. It’s not compulsory, but you may want to give some of them a financial thank you on the day, so do factor in tips. • The photos Album costs and additional prints can increase your post-wedding bill significantly. • The dress If you’re not going to sell this afterwards, bear in mind that a specialist cleaning and storage service can be pricey.…

The prospect of searching for your ideal wedding venue can seem daunting. But the good news is, a little reflection before you start looking can make the process much easier. “There are three key things to consider when choosing your venue: the location, the capacity and the style of wedding you want to have,” explains Caroline Bradley, editor of our sister brand hitched.co.uk , which features a whole host of simply stunning “I do” spaces. So before you go on the hunt, ask yourself some questions. What do we want from the day? Think about weddings you’ve been to and which elements you found most enjoyable. If your idea of heaven is a fabulous feast, look at places known for their cuisine, or venues that will let…

• Get creative with your decor Think scented floral arches, petal-strewn aisles and backdrops of streamers. • Have fun with the order of service You can add favourite quotes or short biographies of the bridal party. • Music makes all the›difference Celebrate›with a much-loved song as you exit. • Don’t forget the lighting Candles give a romantic, intimate feel, while lanterns in different hues add a colour pop. • Who says you have to have paper confetti? Hand out packets of glitter, rose petals or lavender, bottles of bubbles, ribbon wands or little bells, so long as your venue agrees. • Venue allowing, rethink the set-up – we’ve seen stunning ceremonies where guests sit in a circle around the happy couple.…

• Being a witness This involves signing the register to confirm the legality of your marriage. You need two, and can often have more. • Doing a reading or song Asking someone to sing, or read some meaningful words during the ceremony, is a lovely way to include them. • MC Announces dinner and the speeches – the perfect role for someone with a big personality. • Someone blue Ask your pals to add a dash of navy or sapphire to their outfits (think tie, jewellery, corsage), so they can be your “something blue”. • Don’t ask them to... man the guestbook, hand out drinks, take coats – anything that implies unpaid labour. Sometimes you just have to let guests be guests.…

…ORDER Allow around six months for a fully bespoke design to avoid checking proofs in a rush. For customised, six to eight weeks should do it. It’s one invite per household, not per person. Be smart and order spares – around 5% of the total – in case of extra guests. …SEND Traditionally, invites go out six to eight weeks before the big day, but we say the earlier, the better. We recommend four months in advance, or even a year if travel is involved. Check postage costs before you start sticking on stamps, and include your return address on envelopes so you’ll know if any don’t reach their destination. …ASK FOR RSVPS Find out from your caterer and venue exactly when they’ll need final numbers and set your deadline…

What tempts your taste buds? The traditional sit-down wedding breakfast is always in style, but if you feel this won’t suit your theme (or budget), there are many mouth-watering alternatives. The ever-popular hog roast is perfect for rustic-luxe parties, while a scattering of food trucks would be ideal for a wedfest. Having a romantic garden party? A substantial afternoon tea on vintage china or a picnic served from wicker hampers has real wow factor. If you’re set on seated dining but want to add an element of informality, consider family-style dining: large platters of food on each table for guests to pass around –›it’s a great ice-breaker. What are your drinks desires? You don’t have to start with champagne; serving your favourite cocktail will add a personal touch. As a…

Your cake and flower choices can make a big difference to the look and feel of your day. Here’s how to get them right. THINK SIZE AND SPACE Subtle floral arrangements in light shades can easily get lost in a large room. Keep in mind that your tables aren’t the only parts of the venue that will benefit from some flower power: you can use blooms to highlight special features, such as fireplaces or beams. If your cake is to be a focal point, think about where it should be placed, and what colour and height will ensure it stands out. You’ll also need to know the number of guests so you can order the right size. REFLECT ON THE MOOD Blooms in particular can affect the feel of the…

• Wine Build your own wine cellar full of reds and whites to enjoy in years to come (majestic.co.uk). • Homemade heaven Yes, Etsy fans, you can set up a gift list with the site. For the uninitiated: that means handcrafted gems, from decor to jewellery (etsy.com). • Baby essentials Wearing a maternity wedding dress? Congrats – and think about setting up a list full of newborn essentials (mothercare.com). • Art Cover your walls with original artwork (affordableartfair.com). • Home improvements Give your nest a makeover with help from your nearest and dearest (diy.com). • Unique treats For stylish keepsakes, set up a list at a museum or gallery shop (culturelabel.com) or take a look at the lovely ranges at notonthehighstreet.com.…

# TELLTHEBRIDE Join us on Facebook every week to help solve one bride-to-be’s dilemma “Am I the only one who thinks that having reception-only guests is in poor taste? For my wedding, if I can only afford to feed 20, then I’ll only have 20 for the reception! Why turn people into B-list guests?” Caro K says: “I think getting an invite to the evening is still very special, and people can always decline it. There’s no way we could have everyone at our meal but there are some mates from my past who I’d love to enjoy our live band with, over some drinks. We’ll still feed the evening guests, so I don’t see why anyone would be offended.” STEAL THESE DETAILS Be inspired by the stunning real weddings…

THE BRIEF Mood Baroque opulence gets a modern-day makeover with abundant blooms and a showstopping cake Palette A base of rich pearl white, peach and blush pink with touches of sage green and a generous sprinkling of gold Venue A regal theme demands a venue fit for a queen, and The French Dining Room at Cliveden House, with its golden-panelled walls and glorious high ceilings is just that “We used vintage glass candle holders as cake stands for the mini cakes, which made them look incredibly special” We’ve heard of the choice of venue or a IDYRXULWH flRZHU EHLQJ WKH LQVSLUDWLRQ EHKLQG D UHFHSWLRQ WKHPH› EXW ZKHQ VWyOLVW /DXUD EHJDQ GUHDPLQJ XS WKLV JODPRURXV ORRN› LW ZDV D PXFK VZHHWHU HOHPHQW WKDW OHG WKH ZDy ² WKH VSHFWDFXODU VHYHQ-WLHU FDNH›…

THE COUPLE Laura & Andy Laura Hurford, 33, and Andy Durrant, 34, held their ceremony at Giardini della Principessa di Piemonte and their reception at Villa Cimbrone, Ravello, Italy For many couples, the journey between the ceremony and reception venues is the least interesting part of the day. Andy and Laura, however, decided to make it special. After their romantic outdoor ceremony in Ravello, the couple and their guests walked through town – accompanied by two guitar-strumming musicians. “All the locals and holidaymakers were stopping to say congratulations and take photos,” says Andy. “We felt like absolute superstars!” On arrival at picturesque Villa Cimbrone, guests enjoyed prosecco, cocktails and canapés on the lawn, overlooking the Mediterranean Sea. “We wanted everyone to experience the dramatic views of the $PDOfi &RDVW›µ VDyV…

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Why go seasonal? It maximises your budget It’s easier for your florist to source It may give you the option to buy locally and support British growers Great for spring scent Perfume the room beautifully with Convallaria (lily of the valley), Genista, Hyacinthus (hyacinth), Jasminum (jasmine) and Syringa (lilac) GORGEOUS SPRING VARIETIES Hyacinth Beautifully fragrant, these come in a variety of shades and add a lovely texture to a mixed bouquet Tulip Elegant as a hand-tied bouquet Narcissus In many varieties, sizes and shades, these can create real impact when displayed on their own in large quantities NO PRESSURE You don’t have to be an expert – let your florist help you with recommendations on how best to create the look you want…

Remember how we always tell you planning is supposed to be fun? Well, here’s the proof! At The National Wedding Show and The Wedding Fair, you’ll find everything you need for your big day – they’re the ultimate destinations for shopping, inspiration and planning. The best bit: you can upgrade the experience with VIP tickets. Bring your whole bridal party and treat them to fast-track entry to the show, access to the VIP lounge, a glass of premium bubbly, a goody bag packed full of beauty products and reserved seats at the catwalk shows. If you book your VIP tickets using our exclusive code YYWVIP, you’ll receive an additional glass of bubbly at the VIP lounge for free.† Visit thenationalweddingshows.co.uk  and theweddingfairs.com.…

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You’ve got the rock, found your groom and are busy planning every detail for the most important day of your life to date. But as you’re caught up in wine tastings, canapé choices and colour schemes, you’ve found that your workouts have become sporadic, or even non-existent. And your diet? You’ve fallen off the superfood wagon. 6R› LI yRX fiQG yRXUVHOI GLWFKLQJ yRXU ER[LQJ class for bridesmaid-dress shopping, Pilates for flRULVW WULDOV DQG &URVV)LW FODVV IRU FDNH WDON ›DQG sampling), it’s time to take action. Protein World is the perfect solution to help you on your weight loss journey, with an all-round programme designed to help you look and feel fabulous for that special occasion. Protein World’s Slender Blend contains added vitamins and minerals for healthy hair, skin and nails,…

12-9 MONTHS Congratulations – the fun starts here. Where to begin once you’ve said you will In the beginning… Once you’ve celebrated with family and friends (and updated your Facebook status), this is a good time to gather inspiration. Storing all your ideas in one place means you won’t forget anything, whether you choose to use an online mood board service such as Pinterest – check out pinterest.com/youyour wedding – or create a classic cut-out-and-keep wedding file (including plenty of pictures from You & Your Wedding, of course). If you fancy some wedding chat, the You & Your Wedding forum (youand yourwedding.co.uk/forum) is a great place to swap ideas with others. Choose the bridal party The sooner you appoint your maids, ushers and best man, the sooner your favourite guys…

1 PONDER YOUR IDEAL PARTY Each different event size has its own advantages. If›you go big (say, 150 plus), you’ll be able to include all your nearest and dearest, as well as filling the dance floor for a night to remember. However, if you trim your list to around 100, you’ll find a wider choice of venues. A gathering of around 50 guests means you’ll be able to include personal touches that would be too time-consuming at a large affair, such as handwritten thank-you notes at every place setting. A super-intimate affair (just you, your partner and your best friends) allows you to arrange a seriously decadent dinner. 2 KNOW WHAT YOUR LIMITS ARE The main factors to take into account are space and budget. Obviously, you can’t go over…

• The practicalities How is payment handled? Is there a minimum spend? Is VAT included? Will there be another wedding on the day? Is there parking? Do guests get an accommodation discount? When do you need final numbers? Is there a plan B for outdoor weddings? • The small print Are glassware, linens, chairs etc included? Can we have candles, fireworks and confetti? Are there sound restrictions? What time does it have to finish? • Decorations How much can we personalise the venue? When can we have access? Will you set up? • Food and drink Can we bring our own drink and, if so, is there a corkage fee? Can we choose our caterers? Do you offer tastings? What are the evening buffet options?…

Whether you’re going bridal boutique or high street, sample sale or bespoke, read our top tips for finding The One. DO YOUR HOMEWORK Build a picture of what you want by checking out our fashion sections, online and in the magazine, and also looking at uk.pinterest.com/youyourwedding. Before making an appointment at a boutique or shop, check its website to see if they carry designs you like at your price point. ASSESS YOUR STYLE Consider which frocks you already own that make you feel fantastic. Think about practicalities, too: a long train or fitted fishtail may not be the best choice for garden games or dancing the night away. And don’t forget the season – a floaty Grecian gown in winter may not feel like such a good idea when you’re…

Your wedding stationery is so much more than pretty paper and matching envelopes. On the practical side, this is how you give guests all the information they need to enjoy the day, particularly the crucial when and where. On a more emotional level, your invitations are the first glimpse your friends and family will have of what you’re planning. And it’s not just about the invitations – there are many different types of stationery you can use to help everything run smoothly and add a sense of style. Save the date These are a good idea if you want to give plenty of notice, particularly if you’re saying “I do” abroad or in the peak wedding period – spring and summer – and to avoid clashing with booked holidays. A…

Chances are, your wedding day will fly by in a happy blur of talking and toasting. The photos will let you relive the whole story in detail in years to come. START EARLY Popular photographers usually get booked up 12-18 months in advance, although you may find there’s more flexibility for weekday weddings. SORT YOUR STYLE There are almost as many different styles as there are wedding photographers, ranging through the classic posed “portraiture” approach to very hands-off “reportage”. Some snappers aim for a soft and romantic effect; others are more about crystal-clear images. Go through real weddings in Y&YW magazine and online, particularly celebrations at similar venues to yours, and make a note of any photographers whose work catches your eye. Elements to look for include how they capture…

• Canapés Bite-sized treats usually circulated at the drinks reception. • Bowl food Rather like a cross between canapés and a buffet: bowls of mini main courses served to guests by waiters with trays. • Finger buffet Made up of dishes you can eat with your hands, such as quiche, sandwiches etc. • Fork buffet Made up of dishes that require the use of cutlery. • Charger Large plate that’s purely decorative. • Linens Tablecloth and napkins. • Flatware Another word for cutlery. • Corkage A charge made by the venue for serving wine you’ve provided, on a per-bottle basis.…

Your guests will want to get you gifts as part of the celebration. Rather than wearily accepting five identical cake stands, it’s sensible to set up a gift list (also known as a registry). But what should you ask for? CLASSIC HOMEWARES Chances are, you already own the essentials – fridge, furniture and their domestic friends. This, therefore, is your chance to upgrade. Got your eye on a Nespresso machine? Fancy some silky-soft new bed linen? Have at it. There’s a wealth of places to fulfill your desires, from online directories to high-street department stores. Do spread your requests across a wide price range, to accommodate guests of different budgets. One way of doing this is opting for sets, such as new crockery or towels, from which people can buy…

After months of planning, it’s important to ensure that every carefully chosen element of your day has a moment in the spotlight. It’s a task that’s akin to being the director of a show (as well as the leading lady) and requires serious organisation. Every member of the behind-the-scenes crew, from the hair stylist and caterer to the photographer and DJ, needs to know well in advance when they’re required and how they fit into the overall big-day timings. Bridal beauty It’s worth allocating plenty of time before the ceremony to achieve your camera-ready look. Get these timings wrong and you’ll set off a domino effect for the rest of the day. Experts suggest allowing up to one hour and 45 minutes for your own makeover, plus a few minutes…

Family party Music Get all guests great and small on the floor with a ceilidh or barn dance. Entertainment Book a magician or caricaturist (visit alivenetwork.com), and consider hiring a bouncy castle or giant Jenga for outdoor fun. Country house elegance Music A string quartet or harpist during the drinks reception, followed by a 1930s-style tea dance, a jazz group or swing band. Entertainment Garden games such as boules and croquet. City vibes Music Chill-out tunes during dinner, then a superstar DJ (we heart Disco Wed and Wedding Smashers) for the dancing. Or try Stick It On, which lets you and your guests take it in turns to DJ with professional equipment. Entertainment A casino with fake money for buying chips. Barn storming Music Fun and funky band – mariachi…