In the midst of the Covid-19 pandemic, late last year Kelly Alder released her memoir, The Fourteenth Wife: A Search for Belonging, which she’d been working on for seven years. ‘When my daughter was about three, I felt this urge to start writing down my story so that she could one day read not just about my life, but about her grandparents too,’ she says, adding that she didn’t ever want her daughter to be in the dark, as she had been.
Sitting with Kelly in the garden of her Cape Town home, it’s hard to reconcile the happy, fulfilled life she leads now with what she went through as ayoung woman. Her daughter is sitting in anook off the kitchen, busy with homework, while her husband, James, is in…