‘I felt guilty our marriage was sexless’ Jane, 34, is a teacher from Cardiff We did it against doctor’s orders. We were only meant to be touching each other, penetration was strictly off the table.
Afterwards, I was elated. Not because it had been mind-blowing sex. It was fairly straight, married-for-three-years sex. But because we’d done it, and it hadn’t been agonising.
For the first time in over two years, I felt a glimmer of hope that maybe, just maybe, things could get back to normal one day. Three months ago, I was diagnosed with a condition called vestibulodynia. Put very simply, it’s a persistent pain at the entrance of the vagina. There’s no definitive cause, but doctors told me it may be down to oversensitive nerve endings. It can…
