“As you see, I have a lot of phalli lying around,” quips Charles Leslie, who co-founded the Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art in New York with his late partner J. Frederic “Fritz” Lohman.
Leslie sits, legs crossed, on a couch in the museum’s foyer, where a recreation of his 1,800-square-foot SoHo loft, just around the corner, has been staged as an exhibition titled “Male Gaze: Life, Legacy, Legend.” He motions toward a glass case filled with crystal and ceramic penises, scrimshawed whale-bone dildos—the various explicitly pointed objects for which his apartment, where homoerotic art in all styles and media cover every surface, has been lovingly dubbed the “Phallus Palace.” One painting by the artist Marion Pinto, a dual nude of Leslie and Lohman lying side by side, hangs…
