Table of contents for November/December 2019 in You and Your Wedding

1 GET YOUR KICKS Ditch the heels! We’ve sourced the most stylish – and comfortable – trainers for fashion-conscious brides. 2 IN GOOD ORDER Stationery lovers, you’ll adore these chic order-of-service ideas. 3 GIRL POWER Check out our edit of aww-inducingly cute flower girl dresses and accessories. 4 PURE BLISS Prefer pampering to partying? Massage to late-night bars? Then our list of relaxing hen party ideas is for you. 5 HONEYMOON HEAVEN There’s a Caribbean island to suit your holiday style, whether luxe or laid-back. EXCLUSIVE INSPIRATION Follow us on Instagram, Pinterest, Facebook and Twitter for the latest ideas. JOIN IN THE WEDDING CHAT with other couples at youandyourwedding.co.uk/forum @YOUYOURWEDDING…

SLICE OF HEAVEN We’ve long been partial to the delicious sponges from legendary London bakery Konditor, so we were delighted to hear of the launch of its first wedding cake range. Tiers of joy all round. Available online, in store or by phone, from £140. In the picture Artist Imogen Partridge can create a bespoke hand-drawn image of your venue. Yes, you’ll have the photographs, but there’s something indefinably romantic about watercolour illustrations, etsy.com/uk/shop/ImogenPartridge Present & correct New launches at gift-list provider The Wedding Shop include Royal wedding florist Philippa Craddock’s sublime scented candles, chic cookware from Emile Henry, homeware by Sophie Conran, and retro-style Orla Kiely bedding. VENUE INSIDER NOW HOSTS WEDDINGS The Boundary Project, London NEW SUITES Hedsor House, Buckinghamshire JUST OPENED The Langley, Buckinghamshire…

For top-to-toe radiance, look to a moisturising body oil; they deeply hydrate the skin, and also make for a relaxing daily ritual. “Apply oil to slightly damp skin after your bath or shower and use long, flowing strokes, working towards the heart to boost circulation. It’s a wonderful way to bring a mindful moment to your day,” says Sarah Murrell, founder of skincare brand By Sarah London. SAVE Palmer’s Coconut Oil Body Oil, £7 Made with ethically sourced coconut oil, this body oil offers 24 hours of moisture with a deliciously tropical scent. Sanctuary Spa 4 Day Long Lasting Moisture Body Oil Spray, £7.50 Packed with vitamin E, this light-weight mist delivers deep moisturisation. Burt’s Bees Lemon & Vitamin E Bath & Body Oil, £9.99 Add this all-natural formula to…

NO.1 Colour & flowers Move away from white and ivory with pretty blush tones and flower appliqué details, or rock black florals for daring aisle style. NO.2 Modern bride From stylish separates to jumpsuits and textured layering, these high-fashion pieces blend bridal tradition with contemporary innovation. NO.3 Lovely in lace Bridal style is all about reinventing a classic. This season’s catwalks focused on mixing shapes that are unmistakably 2019, with fabrics that are truly timeless.…

RSVP JEALOUSY A million British people have declined a wedding invitation because they’ve cheated with one of the couple* . Cue sudden scrutiny of your “no” list. SAYING SORRY Knowing when to apologise is the main secret to a happy marriage, according to a survey by jewellers Beaverbrooks. But what if you’re always right? FAVOURS WITH HEART Check out the new range from blood cancer charity Bloodwise’s online shop, including pin badges, perfect for favours that guests will treasure.…

18 MONTHS TO GO Agree on a budget Draft a rough guest list so you know what size of venue to look for Decide whether you would prefer a civil or religious wedding ceremony and what type of venue you want View and book your venue Book your church and registrar/other celebrant Finalise your guest list Invest in wedding insurance Book your photographer and videographer 12 MONTHS TO GO Choose your bridesmaids, best man and ushers Send out your save the dates Book transport, if you need it Book your entertainment If you need to hire caterers, book them and discuss the menu options Start dress shopping Start bridesmaid dress shopping Book your hair and make-up artist, if you're having them NINE MONTHS TO GO Book your florist Book your…

Celebrity facialist Abigail James shares her at-home facial routine, for red-carpet worthy skin without the A-list investment. This lifting massage will not only give your skin a radiance boost – it’ll unwind and relax you, too. To start, warm half a teaspoon of face oil in your palms, then apply in a “prayer” movement to your face, neck and décolletage. 1 Using the right hand, make big, downward circles on the left side of the neck. Repeat on the other side using the other hand. 2 Using both hands together, massage both sides of the neck at the same time. 3 Make scissor shapes with your fingers, as pictured. Push your hands back and forth on either side of the ears and along the jaw. 4 Hold your hands as…

ROAD TO ROMANCE The iconic Lanesborough hotel, London, has unveiled a new fleet of supercars for guests to use during their stay. The collection includes a Ferrari, Rolls Royce and Lamborghini. Now, that’s a stylish start to married life, oetkercollection.com Plane SAILING Staycations are on the rise, with 66% of us booking a UK break* , and the Lake District being one of most popular destinations. It’s a long drive for southerners, though, who will be delighted to hear they can now fly from London Southend to Carlisle Lake District Airport in just 85 minutes! loganair.co.uk Y&YW WANDERLUST We can t wait to visit the new Victorian Potting Shed Garden Suites and Woodland Spa opening this September at The Eastbury in Dorset. It’s all about making the most of…

What better way to lead your guests to their places than with a unique seating chart? From vegetable-seed escort cards to pretty ice-cream cupcakes, your seating plan could incorporate your interests, your wedding colours, or a personalised glass of fizz – a sure-fire way to add some sparkle! PLUS HAVE AN ECO-FRIENDLY WEDDING | CURE YOUR DRESS DOUBTS | GORGEOUS GIFTS…

GOOD TO TALK? My colleagues keep asking me about my wedding. I’m worried it’s because they assume they’re invited – but I wasn’t planning on asking any of them! It’s getting awkward now, because I’ll be sending the invitations soon. Should I say something? Thea Y&YW says: It’s possible your colleagues are only asking because they’re curious, not because they’re expecting an invitation. But if your instincts are telling you otherwise, it’s worth making the situation clear. A blank “you’re not invited” on your team Slack is unlikely to keep up good relations. Instead, next time one of them asks something, give them the answer and then say, “I just wish you and the rest of the team could be there, but we’ve had to limit the guest list due…

What does your package include and how much are extras? You need to know how many hours they’ll cover, whether you can have a second shooter for a larger wedding, and an engagement shoot. How many photos will I receive? Your photographer will take hundreds of photos throughout the day, but you most likely won’t ever see any awkwardly cropped candids. How many images can you expect in your final selection? Can I see examples of full weddings you’ve shot? It’s easier to judge their style if you can see shots from entire wedding days, rather than just seeing the highlights reel. Can I see a sample album? Albums are usually extra; it’s worth checking that you like the options that your photographer provides. Can I request specific shots? If…