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Will Dad ruin my wedding?
Q My parents haven't spoken to me for four years because my fiancé doesn't meet with their approval for various reasons, all nonsense as far as I'm concerned. But it's been hard to feel like I'm disappointing them, even though, logically, I know I'm not doing anything wrong. He is a wonderful man, reliable, loyal, loving, kind, and I've always known that they would like him if they just got over their prejudices. We got engaged last month and my brother had a go at them and told them that they are missing out on…
